10 Tips on How to Be The Creator You Are Born To Be

Are you ready to be a powerful creator and to manifest your best life?

For as long as I’ve known myself I’ve always had a condition to put myself down. Not necessarily because I had an outside proof that I should or wasn’t good enough, simply because I felt like whatever I did had to be perfect. I mean, what is perfection really. I had insanely high standards for myself, my work, my relationships – anything that I touched, I had to control. I don’t even know why I had the need to be in constant control of what’s going on with me and around me. Yet, I know it was very exhausting. It took so much energy of me that I could’ve well used in more productive ways.

The thing is that we can never truly be in control. Control is an illusion and it’s a great way to stop any miracles from reaching you. Control is also a great way to stay safe in the known aka not moving forward in a free and exciting way.

What I discovered was that I needed this control because I didn’t trust myself. I had to be in control, because if I wasn’t – who would be? Who would keep me safe?

I felt like the world was dangerous and I had to keep out risks.

I didn’t understand that I am part of the universal consciousness.
I didn’t understand that by not trusting myself (an expression of this universal consciousness), I am in reality not trusting this infinitely wise and benevolent consciousness to take care of me. I thought I would be better off, if I took care of life and business myself. If I push hard enough, I’ll make it work. It has always worked like that, right?

We are now moving into a new time, a new consciousness.

The energies on our planet are changing and more of us are awakening to the infinite potential we carry. We wake up to the fact that we are co-creators in this universe. We realize pushing hard like we may have done before and for many lifetimes is not the solution anymore.

It’s uncomfortable, at first, to realize that little ‘work’ may yield huge results, if it is aligned to our mission, intention and energy. In this new time we have the potential to create with ease. We are more and more waking up to our greatness and the big impacts we can make, if only we focus and set clear intentions.

It is not about asking for what you want.

Asking means that you are uncertain you will receive. It is about knowing that you are the co-creator and that whatever you decide to create, has to come to pass. It is about connecting with this potential future right now, because it is what you command.
It is not your place to decide HOW it will come to you. No. As a creator you KNOW it will come to you, BECAUSE you decided that it shall be so. This is why you can relax, follow continuous action and wait for the manifestations of your intended creation to bloom in your life.

If you can find this essence, this spark within you, then you’ll understand that you are not a victim of your circumstances. You can clear your karma and your path and you can be as powerful as you wish to be.

Why aren’t you harnessing your full power yet?

Yes, you may be scared of that power. Scared of the responsibility that comes with it. Scared of having to grow into someone you are not…YET. Yes, the old must leave so that the new can enter. But it will be so worth it.

  • Imagine you are the lighthouse for your followers and you are creating the impact and changes on this planet that you wish to create.
  • Imagine you are a deliberate creator and whatever you set your mind to will come to pass, simply because you chose that it shall be.
  • Imagine yourself feeling relaxed and happy because you know you are not alone. You are part of this universal consciousness that we are all part of. You are a creator within this field of potential and it is your role to step up and manifest.

You don’t need permission or an initiation to use your power.

Your permission is granted with your birth. All it takes is your decision to resume your spot as a creator.

When I understood that not trusting myself, means that I cut off the love for myself, the love for all of life, I was able to embark upon a healing journey that has opened doors that I never thought possible.


John Lennon summed all this up beautifully:
“There are two basic motivating forces: fear and love. When we are afraid, we pull back from life. When we are in love, we open to all that life has to offer with passion, excitement, and acceptance. We need to learn to love ourselves first, in all our glory and our imperfections. If we cannot love ourselves, we cannot fully open to our ability to love others or our potential to create. Evolution and all hopes for a better world rest in the fearlessness and open-hearted vision of people who embrace life.”


10 Tips to Be a Strong Creator:

  1. Trust yourself and your own power as a creator
    We are all created equal and in the likeness of God (universal consciousness). You have the ability to create and you are here to practice and do this.
  2. Be clear about what you are creating
    Have a vision beyond your current reality, know what it feels like if your vision of the future becomes your reality.
  3. Align your vibration
    In our 3D world we have a linear way of thinking and experiencing things. But you are a multi-dimensional being, so know that if you can feel it and be the person you long to be that has what you desire, you are speeding up the process and likelihood of it coming to you. You are choosing a potential of your future and through aligning your vibration to this potential you are attracting it into your reality.
  4. Get comfortable with already having your creation
    What would you do once you have it? How would you behave if you were that person already? Get ready to feel that way and arrange your life so that the new can enter.
  5. You cannot NOT interact with the universal field of consciousness in and around you
    You are part of the universal consciousness. You are never alone and always interacting, sending out signals. Either these signals will let your creations come to you faster or slower. You can very well be resisting to receive your creations. Be aware of your thoughts. Worry brings chaos. Go back and remember 1): trust your powers.
  6. Know what you want, but surrender to something better
    In order to move, first you need have a goal. Yes, we humans are this linear. Yet, don’t try to control the outcome – something even better may be in store for you.
  7. Do not control how it comes to you
    It is important to take action to co-create, yet it’s not about you laying out a plan of how your desires will manifest. Instead trust, feel your creation in you reality already and take inspired action to move ahead. Miracles can happen when you surrender and are open to receiving. Give up control and your creations will come to you much faster and easier.
  8. Love yourself
    Take care of your own energy and make your well-being a priority in your life. Your energy is your most important resource to create. Keep your energy high through consistent self-care and self-love practices.
  9. Take inspired action
    Follow your intuition. Tune in with your internal guidance system and follow the hints, feelings and ideas you receive. This may take a bit of practice for you to trust fully. But to become you master creator you need to….
  10. Practice
    Show up for this lesson every single day. Be open to receive guidance. Meditation will calm your mind and let you be more clear to understand what the divine in you guides you to do. The ego will always speak words of fear and lack. It will want to reason that there is no logic to taking another route. But really, has buying into the ego’s beliefs helped you be happier? Try a new approach and experience your true powers.


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Now, I’d love to hear from you. What are your experiences with self-love and creation? Are you a master creator? Share your story below!
With love, Sharon


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