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Hi. My name is Sharon Kirstin. I’m the best-selling author of a book called The Answers Within. And in this video I would like to share with you a couple of tips on:

How to increase your motivation.

Motivation is not something that we have or don’t have. Actually there’s a recipe for us to create motivation in our life. There are some things that we can implement throughout our days and weeks and months that will keep us motivated and going towards our goals.

And now on to the five tips. Is it five even? Oh, there’s actually six. Oh, six tips.

Number One. Know Your Why.

Why do you want your dream, why do you want your goal, why are you doing what you’re doing, why are you pursuing what you’re pursuing right now?

Know your why, and your why needs to be strong. It needs to pull you out of the bed in the morning, it needs to give you that kick in the butt when you don’t want to do something. And it can’t just be, “because it would be really nice to have it.”

It needs to be strong and powerful like, “My kids need me to show up and to have that extra income because otherwise they won’t eat,” basically, that strong.

So if you don’t have a why that is strong enough just yet, please sit down with pen and paper and journal on that and really write down like, one, two, three reasons why you need to go after the dream now. Why is it important now? Okay?

Number Two. Clarify Your Vision.

Often we are not very clear on what it is that we actually want to create. We maybe think, “Yeah, I want to live my purpose, but, “What is that, what does it feel like? What do you want to do?” Clarify what it is that you’re going after, and it’s okay that it will change and adapt over time and will also expand, but just know, “What is that one vision that you’re going after right now. What does it feel like, what will your expression be like in the scenario?”

Clarify what you want and why you want it. This Why is a different Why than the one we talked about before because the why you wanted is more about, “Why do you want to start your own business?”

“Well, I want to travel. I want to travel the world.”

“Why do you want to travel the world?”

“Well, I want to be free and I want to experience the world.”

Okay, so freedom, your why may very likely be freedom. You want to be free, you want to expand. You want to have experiences that let your soul feel free. So it’s not about having the money. It’s not about the travel in itself, but it’s about freedom. That’s the emotion you’re going for.

Number Three.

Surround yourself with high quality people who are on the similar path as you are. What I mean is that these need to be people who are growing personally, and who are expanding as well, and to have that growth mindset, who are going to push you to grow.

Don’t hang around people who have no ambition, no vision, no reason to get up in the morning. You become the average of the five people that you have most contact with. Make it a wise choice and surround yourself with people who are here to care, to contribute, to grow, that have purpose and who want to share it in this life.

This is going to change your life and your results. It’s going to motivate the heck out of you when you see your friends go after their dreams, have results, and you’re just sitting at home on your couch, eating chips, watching Netflix. You’re going to feel the pain, trust me. You’re going to feel the contrast, trust me.

Number Four. Take Action and Create Momentum.

If this means breaking your goals down so that you know for every single day what you need to do today in order to step forward in your dream, please do this. This is a very, very good goal planning strategy because if you’re not moving towards your goal, you’re not creating momentum. With momentum comes motivation. When you see results coming in, that’s when you feel good about your path. That’s when you see you’re getting closer. You create momentum and good energy around it, and you will move forward. You’ll feel more motivated, trust me.

Number Five. Keep a High Vibe Attitude.

Please, please, please do yourself a favor and just stay in a positive attitude towards your own dreams and desires. You need to show up with a good attitude at work, and just because you maybe have to fake it there, it doesn’t mean that you can just have attitude when it comes to your own business. Come into your business, into every interaction with positive attitude with a high vibe attitude. Everything needs to carry a high energy because energy carries over expectancy, and this is where your vision comes in handy again because once you can have the faith and the knowing inside of you that this is, this vision, this dream, it is yours. It is yours already.

All you need to do is allow yourself to have it, and that is actually one of the big secrets that I have discovered through all of my life is that anything you desire, and everything that you ask for, it is already given to you. Like Adrian Pick says, right? It is given, but what you need to do is you need to allow it into your experience. That’s when you need to work through your condition programming, through the wrong beliefs and through all the resistance that you’ve created in yourself basically that holds it apart from you, that holds it away.

Because success is about allowing it.

It’s not cheating success, it’s not something that you need to be worthy of or deserving. Because you are deserving of anything that you desire. It’s about allowing yourself to have it. Loving yourself enough to have it. Allowing yourself to love yourself enough to do the things that you need to do in order to have it.

Got it?

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